- Some leaders should not succeed

Provocation of the month:

"Some leaders should not succeed"

 

We want all leaders to succeed! Or do we?
How much should we support leaders? How much are we willing to support all kind of leaders? And if we support all kind of leaders, why do we do it? What is steering us? What is our driving force?

 

Thinking Outside-in and Inside-out
No organization has the right to exist unless it contributes to making our world, our common world, a little bit better. What did we learn about that at business school? The purpose of an organization is not to make money! The purpose of an organization has to do with how we can make our world a little bit better as our parents and ancestors have done. They made mistakes also and at the same time look at our improved quality of life today and the material things we take for granted. I walk into a room and flip a switch and have light. I turn a faucet and have water. I step into a plane and some hours later get off across the ocean and in another country.

 

We as human beings have a tendency, for good or bad, to maximize our own personal outcome in life. At the same time we know that we can achieve so much more when we work together and support each other. All of us should have good answers to the following questions: ”How do I/we want things to be in our world?” and ”What will I/we do in order to contribute to that?”

 

We all have a responsibility to think bigger than our own success
That is why we should not support all leaders if they cannot show that they are working for making our common world a little bit better. We have to also examine ourselves. Are we working to make the world a little bit better by our own contributions or are we working only for ourselves? In the long run we are all One and mutually interdependent.

 

All of this is ”nice words” and at the same time what is the alternative? We all know what the alternatives are. Destructive competition, wars, mobbing, starvation are just a few examples of what the alternatives are. It is time for us to learn from the past and take a personal stand regarding how we want things to be in our world and actively contribute to that.

 

Vision, Compensation ambitions and Ego traps
Vision is about how I want things to be in our common world and compensation ambitions are about what I personally want to achieve, not caring about the whole. The extension of compensation ambitions is that I will easily fall into my own ego trap and that is not a nice place to be for myself and for my surroundings. When you have fallen into an ego trap, the only thing that matters is your own satisfaction. Other people become tools to use to gain your ends.

 

The best is that we do not have to invent our visions. They have already been stated in a very, very conscious way, as visions and not compensation ambitions, “we do to other people what we want them to do to us”, or “a society where more people care more about themselves, each other and coming generations”.

Where do I end up with my reflections this time?


I should not support myself or other leaders if we are not showing ourselves and our world that we understand that we are all One and mutually interdependent (definitely in the long run).

 

We should support leaders that have a clear vision answering the question: ”How do I/we want things to be in our world”. We need to see how we/they want to make our common world a little bit better. We need to see that we ourselves and other leaders prove that we are actively contributing to that vision.

 

Here is a link to a video which can give you some new insights to our common world.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7AWnfFRc7g

 

Warm greetings from Uppsala that is covered with snow again.

Hans

 

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If we should not support leaders because they are not positively contributing to the betterment of our world, then we should ask, how did they become leaders in the first place? What was the motivation of those who put them there? Did they have the same outlook or were they fooled by a manipulator? What about his followers? What rewards do they get for supporting someone who is in an ego trap? Some thoughts to explore.
- John Dunnigan
Thanks, Hans! So often it helps to have reminders like this to keep me on the right track and remember what's important. Please keep them coming!
- Matt Gassel, Astra Tech USA
Dear Hans! I am currently teaching 50 students at the Royal Institute of Technology, Stockholm, Sweden, in matters of management AND ethics. I think your argument is extremely valid, and too seldom heard in university business administration studies. With your permission, I will distribute your latest "provocation" to my students to ponder during the christmas holidays. And, you are indeed right in that Uppsala right now is very much covered in snow. Sincerely, Andreas
- Andreas Fili
Ver good reflection. Keep writing.
- Martina
I very agree with you on the statement: We should support leaders that have a clear vision answering the question: ”How do I/we want things to be in our world”. Am i such a leader or do i support such leaders? You have maed me think, thank you.
- Sandy
Thank you for the wonderful thought provoking reflection. Supporting leaders takes a lot of effort. Every nation must have leaders who will react to anything that will happen around them. Kudos Hans.
- Gabriella
Thanks for provocation and link! I give you an link back: [ http://www.paradigmwatch.com/joomla ]http://www.paradigmwatch.com/joomla/ I suggest a little step to start with: start to try to "cooperate alone". I don't know if it is the right expression in english but i swedish I mean: "Samarbete ensam". The meaning is that you, when you know enough of the other person and what he needs to do a good jobb or fell good, you gives it to him. The difference to before is that you do not expect a Thanks just hope that others dp the same to you!
- Thorsten Bergqvist
This reflection made me think a lot! Yes i would like to support my leaders, but my strong resolution is to support only leaders with pure heart, clean hands, right goals
- Berryl
Its true that we need to have leaders who can react to the changes and yes Hans you are truly correct
- Eva
what really determines a good leader is in his followers. It is their actions that will bring about the desired results in whatever goal that is under consideration.
- Jacob
Thanks so much! I needed some info on leadership for my social skills project and this article helped me a lot
- Wincent
Great info enjoyed the article!!
- Sara
I want to support a good leader who develops other good leaders.
- Sharun
A true effective leader should be a doer; not a talker! This is my opinion.
- Jude
Supporting leaders comes out of respect for them and the vision they hold. So according to me, first we must respect our leaders, their vision and their goals and then we will have the heart to support them.
- Bella
Mahatma Gandhi believed that we must be the change we want to see in the world. This was well demonstrated when he helped India gain its independence.
- Anu Francis